About Two Wise Women
We are Nancy Smyth and Sharon Eakes, co-founders of Two Wise Women, globally acclaimed coaches, coach trainers, and thought partners. In addition to authoring our own books, we are contributors to the Arbinger Institute’s best-seller, The Anatomy of Peace. Between us, we have been coaching for nearly 50 years. We are proud to say that in that time we have supported influential leaders from 28 countries to flourish, thrive, and prosper from the inside out.
During this time, we have learned:
- Self-awareness is paramount
- Relationships are at the center of all difficulties people encounter
- All the relationship challenges at work and in the family can be solved
Between us, we have practiced living unfrazzled lives for many years. We did it by being committed; we learned, practiced, and got better over time. Our expertise in coaching kept expanding and now:
Two Wise Women offer you a clear path to joy and freedom.
Your life, your business, and your relationships can be forever changed.
We want to share this joyous way of living with you. We believe you are worthy of a life filled with contentment, joy, and prosperity.
We warmly welcome you and invite you to join us.
Growing up, my life wasn’t easy. My parents’ continual fighting wreaked havoc on my siblings’ and my emotions. And so I blamed them, endlessly, for the pain that disruption and dysfunction caused.
I remember one summer afternoon, when I couldn’t take any more of the noise. Grabbing sunscreen, my transistor radio, and a blanket, I went outside to lie in the sun.
The sky was a beautiful blue, and even though I could still hear their warring, I was wrapped in the sun’s warmth and felt a sweet breeze blow through my hair. There, I could breathe.
At that moment, I felt sure: peace is possible. That was when I knew… I was onto something. Love, peace, and joy became my North Star.
From there, I reached out – and in – for more and more knowledge. I spent four years as an apprentice with an Aztec medicine man in Arizona, where the sky is larger and full of more possibility than I had ever imagined. I traveled to India to dig deeper into myself, and the universes that reside within us all.
In 2000, I joined Co-Active Coaching and Leadership programs and went on to achieve a Master Certified Coaching credential in 2006. And for years, I worked with Arbinger Institute learning and training leaders, teams, and others through mindset shifts that lead to exceptional results.
Now I’m excited to bring all that knowledge and experience to you, through executive coaching that reaches deep within, to change the world around you.
Before I was a coach, I was a therapist. I worked in the addiction treatment field from 1972 – 1996, first as a therapist for 5 years, then as Clinical Director, and then Vice President of Treatment Programs. I helped grow the treatment program from a 150 bed inpatient unit by adding 10 outpatient clinics in 6 counties. We also offered companies Employee Assistance contracts. So besides learning what it was like to be part of an executive team, visioning and steering an organization, I saw people referred to the EAP program who did not have an addiction problem. This included many executives who were simply burned out or overwhelmed.
I was widowed in 1992. In 1996, I left my role with Gateway Rehabilitation Center to remarry. My new husband had developed a powerful training process for executive teams. This process focused on honoring and using all of the talents on the team. I joined him in traveling all over the country delivering these programs. What was missing, it seemed to me, was something to make the insights and changes sustainable. I became a coach to continue working with executive teams to sustain the changes they made.
I loved coaching from the moment I discovered it. It wasn’t too different from the way I did therapy with executives, because I tended to use a solution-focused approach, rather than delving into the past. Some of my therapy skills – like deep listening – served me well.
I knew coaching was the right choice when I discovered over and over how hungry executives were to learn more about themselves. To explore possibilities. And to hear how much happier they were as a result of the coaching.
Random things about Sharon and Nancy:
- We both love good food
- We both work out regularly.
- (“I love the steam room the best,” says Nancy )
- We are both artists
- We both meditate
- After each session of a training we lead together, one calls the other and says, “I love them ... this is the best group ever!” And we mean it.
Below find a partial list of work experiences, speaking engagements, and schooling for these Two Wise Women.
Nancy Smyth, Master Certified Coach:
- The Institute for Integrative Intelligence formerly, Prescott College, Director of Training
- SupporTED, Coach
- Arbinger Institute: Executive Coach
- Executive Coach, Life Coach, MCC since 2006
Presentations and Publications:
- Mind Your Mind, Caliber Tribal Fintech Forum, 2023
- Be a Future-Ready Leader, CEO Today Magazine, March 2022
- Hear Your Heart Whisper from the Stillness, Hybrid Global Publishing, 2021
- Honing the Ultimate Coaching Advantage: The Coach/Client Relationship. A chapter in the book Professional Coaching: Principles and Practice, Springer Publishing Company, 2018
- Bridge to Sacred Space: Coaching that Moves Mountains, International Coaching Federation Midwest Conference, 2018
- Igniting Whole Presence: BEING the Fire of Transformation, ACTO Conference 2016
- Chocolate or Lunch: How Choices Impact Relationships, N. Smyth & S. Eakes, 2015
- Foundations In Business Results, MacFarlane Group, 2014
- Ensnared Or Free, International Coaching Federation Midwest Conference, 2014
- Anatomy of Peace, Contributing Author to Arbinger’s best-selling book, 2005
- Arbinger’s Mastery Choice in Coaching Program, Arbinger Institute, 2003-2018
- Coach Skill-Building for Financial Professionals, Wealth Strong International, Inc., 2008-2015
- Leadership in Action, Khalsa Montessori School, 2012
- ICF Southern Arizona formerly Tucson Professional Coaching Alliance, 2007, 2009, 2012
- ICF Southern Arizona formerly Tucson Professional Coaching Alliance, 2007, 2009, 2012
- Getting the Desired Results, Force Health Protection Conference, US Army Center for Health Promotion and Preventive Medicine, 2009
- Peace is Possible: Building Community and Exploring Peace, Local Schools, 2007- 2009
- Eliminating the Real Enemy: How Businesses Get Results, Denver Business Coaching Conference, N. Smyth & T. Krapu, 2004
- Weave for Us a Garment of Brightness: Native American Stories and Legends, Darshan Magazine, N. Smyth & D. Blanche
Education:
- Master Certified Coach, International Coaching Federation
- Leadership Training Graduate, The Coaches Training Institute
- Certified Professional Co-Active Coach, The Coaches Training Institute
- Master Level Studies, Saint Leonard’s Franciscan Seminary
- Undergraduate Studies in Education Counseling, Cleveland State University & Ohio State University
- Four-year apprenticeship in the art of physical, mental, and emotional healing, Mike Valenzuela – Aztec Indian Medicine Man
Sharon Eakes, Board Certified Coach
- Co-owner, Hope Unlimited, LLC, training and coaching company
- Executive Coach, Life Coach
- 2008 to 2020 Co-leader, Choice in Coaching, Mastery Class of Arbinger Institute
Presentations and Publications:
- Be a Future-Ready Leader, CEO Today Magazine, March 2022
- Honing the Ultimate Coaching Advantage: The Coach/Client Relationship. A chapter in the book Professional Coaching: Principles and Practice, Springer Publishing Company, 2018
- Bridge to Sacred Space: Coaching that Moves Mountains, International Coaching Federation Midwest Conference, 2018
- Igniting Whole Presence: BEING the Fire of Transformation, ACTO Conference 2016
- The Surprising Requirements of Coaching Relationships, ICF Pittsburgh, 2016
- Fresh Views on Resilient Living, Incredible Messages Press, 2015
- Chocolate or Lunch: How Choices Impact Relationships, N. Smyth & S. Eakes, 2015
- Fresh Views, monthly coaching blog 2000 – present
- Secrets for Staying Upbeat and Energized, keynote, MARTI Conference, Indiana University of Pennsylvania, 2015
- Ensnared Or Free, workshop, International Coaching Federation Midwest Conference, 2014
- Arbinger’s Mastery Choice in Coaching Program, Arbinger Institute, 2008-2015
- Liberating Greatness, The Whole Brain Guide to an Incredible Life, H Williamson & S. Eakes, 2006
- Coaching as a Core Competency, workshop, Systems Thinking in Action Conference, San Diego, 2002
Education:
- Herrmann Brain Dominance Advanced Certification – TeamsCoach University Graduate (CoachU)
- Coach U and Corporate Coach University International – The Coaching Clinic
- Herrmann Brain Dominance Instrument Certification
- Duquesne University, M.A. Clinical Psychology
Here are a few client examples:
The coaching sessions helped me through a very difficult time AND they will be there for me the next time life brings challenges. The most important thing I learned was to be mindful that I alone am in control of my happiness. It isn’t always easy to find that place...but when I do, the struggle to get there is more than worth it.
Personally, this course has made me stronger, more aware of how I show up in the world. Professionally: WOW! I am empowered to be the best me.
I wanted to be the best and get the best out of people. By having me focus on helping things go right, to always bringing me back to CARING, LISTENING, and SEEING people as people, I uncovered so much. I’m not only a better listener, but a better person. Thank you.
Receiving executive coaching has been a grounding force for me to be able to come back to myself on a regular basis. Our talks have taught me self-responsibility and self- awareness as a springboard for continued personal and professional development.
My thanks to Sharon and Nancy for their guidance throughout the course. Both are excellent coaches and teachers…..They did a really good job explaining concepts and helping us connect the dots. They both picked up on nuances of limiting thoughts and behaviors. I couldn’t have asked for a better experience!
Your course and coaching helped me and will continue to help me live the deep and lasting change that I want to offer my clients and all my relationships.
After not having a relationship with my son for 45 years (I always let him know how much more I knew than him), I just spent 3 days with my son that were delightful for both of us. Thank you, I owe this shift to your coaching.
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